Incazelo yeBhayibheli yamanzi agcwala ephusheni.
Amanzi ayinto yemvelo ejwayelekile impela emaphusheni; Ukuba khona kwakhe kuzo kunezimpawu eziningi futhi ikakhulu kumayelana nesimo sengqondo noma imizwa yomphuphi. Kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene ze amaphupho ngamanzi , kodwa namhlanje sizokhuluma ngakho ukuphupha ngezikhukhula futhi yayo incazelo .
Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi okuthile okubalulekile kufanele kuchazwe ngokuningiliziwe ngangokunokwenzeka lapho sizama ukuqonda umbono wephupho ngoba yonke imininingwane izongeza incazelo ethe xaxa ephusheni. Ngendlela efanayo, kufanele sinake ukuthi la maphupho adlangile kubantu ababonile noma abebekuhlobo oluthile lwe isikhukhula noma siminzile, kulokhu, akufanele sizame ukuthola incazelo ethile, ngoba akusikho nje ukuthi ubuchopho bethu buphinda bakhumbula lowo mzuzu obusimake kakhulu.
Kungabukeka kuwubuwula, kepha abantu abaningi bayaphupha lezikhukhula , abaningi babo bavuka nabo ukukhathazeka noma uvalo kodwa uma sifundaincazelokwalokhu singathola isimanga esikhulu kwazise yimilayezo emincane nje ethunyelwe isuka kokungazi kwethu futhi sizokuchaza manje.
KUSHO UKUTHINI UKUPHUPHA KUKAZAMCOLO?
Ngakho-ke kusho ukuthini ukuphupha izikhukhula? Imele ukuba khona kwezinkinga noma ubunzima ezimpilweni zethu. Ixhunyaniswe ngokuphawulekayo nezigaba ezintsha; kunezinguquko ezinkulu ezenzekayo endaweni yakho okuzodingeka uzivumelanise nazo kodwa ungesabi ukuthi lezi zinguquko zilungele okuhle ngoba zizokwakha njengomuntu. Ubuchopho buthumela lezi zixwayiso ngqo ukuze ukwazi ukubona ukuthi iziphi izinguquko okufanele uzenze empilweni yakho futhi ngaleyo ndlela ukwazi ukujwayela kusengaphambili esimweni esisebenzisa isikhathi sokuzijwayeza kangcono.
Lapho sicabanga nge izikhukhula ephusheni , singacabanga ukuthi kuyinto efanekisela umhlola omubi, futhi ngandlela thile, kungaba njalo. Amagagasi kwesinye isikhathi awabandakanyi ukuzivumelanisa nezinguquko kuphela, kepha angaphinde asebenzise izinkinga ngokuzayo, nasesikhathini samanje. Kwesinye isikhathi singaphupha ngezinhlekelele ezinzima; njengenhlekelele engokwemvelo esibandakanyeka kuyo futhi esingatholi ndlela yokuphuma kuyo, mhlawumbe kusho izinkinga ezibalulwe ngenhla kanye nobunzima, kanti uma siphikisana naphakathi kukazamcolo. Noma kunjalo, siphephile, futhi sithola indlela yokukusinda kungumfuziselo wokuthi Ngaphandle kwezinkinga uzoba nayo impendulo yenkinga yakho ngaphambili futhi uzoyithatha.
Iphupho lesikhukhula solwandle
Ukuphupha ngozamcolo wolwandle ibikezela inhlanhla, izinkinga, ubunzima, izingozi namashwa. Kufanele uqaphele kakhulu futhi unemininingwane ngalokhu uhlobo lwamaphupho . Uma ekugcineni kombono wamaphupho, ukwazi ukushiya ulwandle ngokuphepha, siyakuhalalisela, kusho ukuthi uzophepha kubo bonke labo izingozi . Kufanele unake yonke imininingwane ukuze usebenzise kabusha izinkinga ezingase zivele empilweni yakho.
Amaphupho ngamanzi acwebile
Ukuphupha izikhukhula ngamanzi acacile ubona kusengaphambili ukuthi ngaphandle kobunzima obuthile obuzodlula kubo, emphakathini nakwezomnotho noma ngokomsebenzi, ungaphuma unqobile kuzo zonke lezo zinkinga. Uzothola isisombululo sakho konke, bese ungabungaza ngoba ngenxa yalezi zinkinga ungakhula uqobo futhi uvuthise ubuntu bakho.
Iphupho lezikhukhula endlini yokugezela
Ukuphupha ngokugcwala endlini yangasese umemezela ukuthi wesaba izinguquko. Uyazi ukuthi impilo yakho ingashintsha kakhulu noma kunini, kodwa ongakwazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalezo zinguquko ezisazokwenzeka. Uyesaba okungaziwa ukuthi lezi zinguquko zonakalisa izinto osuvele uzihlelile, kepha zolile, ushintsho akumele lube nemiphumela emibi engakusiza ukuthi ujabule. Sebenzisa futhi ujabulele lezi zinguquko ukwenza ngcono impilo yakho.
Amaphupho ezikhukhula zasendlini
Ukuphupha amanzi egcwele indlu yakho kungasho ukuthi kufanele unake kakhulu abantu obazungezile futhi obathembayo ngoba othile uzama ukulimaza wena noma obathandayo. Ungathola ecasukile futhi edumele ukuthola ukuthi ngubani ohlela ukukukhaphela, kuzokubiza, kepha ungaqhubeka futhi ululame kuleso sigaba sempilo yakho.
Iphupho lokugcwala ekhishini
Ukuphupha izikhukhula ekhishini uthatha ngokuthi kufanele uqaphele ukuthi abantu bangathini ngawe noma ngomndeni wakho ngoba leli phupho lifanekisela izinkinga ezinkulu zomndeni ezidalwa yilokho abanye abantu abazokhuluma ngawe noma ngomndeni wakho. Ungathatheki intukuthelo noma ukufutheka , hlala phansi, uhlaziye konke uthole isixazululo sayo yonke ingxabano ethinta abathandekayo bakho ukuze ube yikho ngijabule .
EZINYE IZINCAZELO ZAMAPHUPHO NGOZAMCOLO
- Iphupho lesikhukhula esidala izisulu: lokhu kuwuphawu lokuntuleka kokulawula, ngakho-ke yilokho akubikezelayo, qaphela futhi ulawule kakhulu ngakho konke ukunyakaza okwenzayo ukugcina ukuhleleka.
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