Imithandazo Ephumelelayo Yokubuyiselwa Komshado Ngemuva Kokuphinga

Successful Prayers Marriage Restoration After Adultery







Zama Ithuluzi Lethu Lokuqeda Izinkinga

Imithandazo yokubuyiselwa komshado ngemuva kokuphinga . Umkhuleko wokungathembeki emshadweni.

Namuhla, imishado angaphansi okukhulu ukuhlasela . Umshado yisakramente lapho owesilisa nowesifazane bebumbene khona; kungukuqala kwe- umndeni . Lezi imithandazo kufanele ubonge, ngoba imibhangqwana eshadile isenkingeni , ukucela i- umshado ojabulisayo . Ngiyethemba bayakusebenzela.

Yisiphi isikhathi esihle sokuthandazela umshado?

Imithandazo yokuyeka ukuphinga ,Ungathandaza lo mthandazo noma nini lapho ufuna khona. Kepha siyayincoma (njengesiphakamiso sethu), kwenze lapho kusa. UJesu wavuka ekuseni kakhulu wayothandaza entabeni eyedwa. Wusebenzise lowo mzuzu, ngokuthula kwasekuseni, uthandaze ngokuzinikela umkhuleko wemishado .

Izwe ngokwalo lidinga ubufakazi bemishado enempilo nenhle, lilangazelela lokho kukhanya.

Kumele sakhe isiko eliyigugu umshado nomndeni ; la mazwi kufanele akhulunywe ngenhlonipho. Umshado nomndeni amasakramente angcwele othando olukhulu lukaNkulunkulu ngomhlaba.

Ngakho-ke lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisile, makungahlukaniswa ngumuntu. (UMarku 10.9-10)

Ungalokothi uvumele noma ngubani noma yini ukuba ikuhlukanise nomngane wakho womshado. Umkhuleko womshado, uma kungenzeka, kufanele wenziwe nsuku zonke, ucela ukuvikelwa.

Umkhuleko wemibhangqwana enezinkinga

Jesu, nakhu siphambi kwakho sobabili, njengalolo suku lapho sathola khona isakramente lomshado. Njengalolo suku, lapho ubusise uthando lwethu. Kepha manje Jesu, sidilizwe phansi, somile, kude nawe, ngaphandle kwamanzi othando lwakho. Futhi manje ukujabula kwethu kusomile, thela uMoya wakho oNgcwele kithi ukuze usihlanze, usihlanze, usibuyisele, futhi usivuselele ukuze lolo thando olubusisile luhlume futhi.

Jesu, sika futhi ukhulule konke ukuboshwa kwesono, ususe wonke umoya wokungathembeki, udabule emndenini wethu, ekhaya lethu, ubusise izingane zethu, ubusise izimpilo zethu. Nkosi ngivumele ngibe yilokhu engikulangazelelayo noma ngabe engishade naye nokuthi uyilokho engikufunayo. Nkosi, buyisela lelo sakramente elinamandla esibumbene ngalo. Sana, uJesu.

Jesu, kwangathi uMndeni Ongcwele ungangena ekhaya lami, ukuze sazi ukuthi sizikhulisa kanjani izingane zethu, ngendlela kaMariya noJoseph, nokuthi izingane zethu zifane nawe. Sithumele uMoya wakho oNgcwele, ukuze usivikele. Chitha igazi lakho eliyigugu kulo mshado, ekhaya, emndenini, usimboze ngengubo yakho. Amen.

Umkhuleko womshado

Nkosi, siyathandana, sithandana kakhulu, ngisho sazi ukuthi akukho okufezekile ngokuqinisekile, kepha lolo thando lwakhiwa usuku nosuku, ngokuthula nangamagama futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngokwamukelwa okukhulu nokuthethelelwa.

Lapho uthando lwethu lukhula, sikumemele emshadweni wethu. Yayinhle njengeKhana. Isakramente elihlala njalo lobukhona bakho kithi lisenze sathola kuyo yonke impilo yethu yokuhlangana ukuthi amanzi enqubo yethu aba iwayini elisha lapho uthando lwethu

Ngumnikelo oqotho nokunikela lapho sikhohlwa okungokwami

futhi thina lapho wena nobukhona bakho usenza umphakathi wokuPhila nothando. Amen.

Ukuze ube nomshado omuhle

INkosi: Yenza ikhaya lethu indawo yothando lwakho.

Makungabikho ukulimala ngoba usinikeza ukuqonda.

Makungabibikho umunyu ngoba Uyasibusisa.

Makungabikho ubugovu ngoba Uyasikhuthaza.

Makungabikho rancor ngoba Usinika intethelelo.

Makungabikho ukulahlwa ngoba Unathi.

Ukuthi siyazi ukuthi singamasha kanjani siqonde Kuwe empilweni yethu yansuku zonke.

Vumela njalo ekuseni kuphume olunye usuku lokuzinikela nokuzidela.

Ukuthi njalo ebusuku sithola uthando oluningi kubantu abashade nabo.

Nkosi, yenza izimpilo zethu ukuthi ubufuna ukujoyina ikhasi eligcwele Wena.

Yenza, Nkosi, yezingane zethu Okulangazelelayo:

sisize ukubafundisa futhi sibaqondise endleleni.

Silwela ukududuzana.

Masenze uthando sibe esinye isisusa sokukuthanda kakhulu.

Sengathi singenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukuze sijabule ekhaya.

Ukuthi lapho usuku olukhulu lokukuhlangabeza luqala, usinikeze ukuzithola simunye unaphakade Kuwe.

Amen.

Umkhuleko ubonga ngomshado

Nkosi, Baba ongcwele, onamandla onke noNkulunkulu waphakade,

siyabonga futhi sibusisa igama lakho elingcwele:

Udale owesilisa nowesifazane ukuze omunye enzele omunye

usizo nokusekelwa. Usikhumbule namuhla. Sivikele futhi usinikeze

ukuthi uthando lwethu luyisipho nesipho, ngomfanekiso kaKristu neBandla.

Sikhanyisele futhi usiqinise emsebenzini wokubumba izingane zethu,

ukuze babe ngamaKristu angempela nabakhi be

idolobha lasemhlabeni. Senze sihlale ndawonye isikhathi eside, ngokujabula nangokuthula,

ukuze izinhliziyo zethu zihlale zikhuphukela kuwe ngeNdodana yakho ngoMoya oNgcwele, ngokudumisa, nangokubonga. Amen.

Umkhuleko womshado

O Nkulunkulu, Baba wethu osezulwini, sivikele futhi usibusise.

Kujulisa futhi kuqinise uthando lwethu nsuku zonke. Siphe ngomusa wakho ukuthi singakhulumi amagama amabi komunye nomunye.

Sithethelele futhi ulungise amaphutha ethu, futhi usisize ukuthi sizithethelele njalo lapho silimazana singahlosile. Sinakekele futhi usigcine ukuze siphile kahle emzimbeni, siqaphele ngokomqondo, sithambe ngenhliziyo futhi sizinikele emoyeni.

O Nkulunkulu, siphe ukuba sifise futhi sinikeze futhi sibe ngcono kakhulu komunye nomunye. Futhi sicela ukuthi ugcwalise izimpilo zethu zansuku zonke ngezimfanelo ezinhle ongasinikeza zona kuphela. Ngakho-ke, Nkosi, thatha uthando lwethu nezimpilo zethu ndawonye, ​​ukuze zibe yindumiso kuwe, ukuthi zisiza abanye.

Kwangathi singahlala simunye njalo phambi kwakho, ngenjabulo nangokuthula ngosizo lukaKristu, iNkosi yethu. Amen.

Umkhuleko 2

Nkosi, Baba ongcwele,

onamandla onke noNkulunkulu waphakade,

siyabonga futhi siyabusisa

igama lakho elingcwele: wadala

owesilisa nowesifazane

ukuze ngamunye enzelwe omunye

usizo nokusekelwa. Usikhumbule namuhla. Sivikele futhi usinikeze

ukuthi uthando lwethu lube a

isipho nesipho, ngomfanekiso kaKristu.

Sikhanyisele futhi usiqinise emsebenzini

yokwakheka kwezingane zethu,

ukuze babe ngamaKristu angempela

nabakhi be

idolobha lasemhlabeni. Senze siphile

ndawonye isikhathi eside, ngenjabulo nangokuthula,

ukuze izinhliziyo zethu

ingahlala ikhuphukela kuwe,

ngeNdodana yakho ngoMoya oNgcwele,

ukudumisa nokubonga. Amen.

Thandazani umkhuleko womshado ndawonye.

Vumelanani (uma kungenzeka) ukwenza umkhuleko womshado ndawonye. Kuyisenzo senhlangano yothando enizobe niyenzela ubudlelwano benu. Zinikeni isikhathi sokuthandaza ndawonye. Masikhumbule ukuthi, ukuthandaza ndawonye njengezithandani, akukho lutho olunganqoba izibusiso enizozithola emthandazweni wenu.

Madoda, qondani ukuthi kumele nabelane ngempilo yenu nomuntu obuthakathaka, onjengowesifazane: mphathe ngenhlonipho ngenxa yezindlalifa zomusa ezinikezwa nguMpilo. Ngale ndlela, akukho lutho oluyoba yisithiyo emthandazweni. (1 Petru 3.7)

UNkulunkulu munye nawe; UNkulunkulu uthando; umshado uthando . Uthando luyabekezelela noma yini ezayo; ngeke kuphele. [Funda u-1 Korinte 13.7-8]

Masibonge uNkulunkulu ngesipho sozakwethu; sibizelwe ukuba munye nabo ngesikhathi naphakade. Ngakho-ke ungayeki ukwenza lo mkhuleko onamandla wemishado; ngeke uzisole ngokukwenza. Inkosi ikubusise ikwenzele umshado ongcwele ngothando.

Ubufakazi Bokubuyiselwa Komshado / Vieyra

Eminyakeni engama-20 edlule ngashada ngoba ngangikhulelwe. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngaphambili, umyeni wami wakhulelisa omunye wesifazane. Wenze impilo yangasinakukwazi, kwaphela iminyaka wasuka futhi wabuya. Umyeni wami uzinikele ekuphuzeni, uzozijabulisa. Bengihlala ngithukuthele ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngikhononda kuye kaningi, ngifuna ukusihlukanisa, kwafika ukuhlambalaza, ukungabi nentethelelo, ukumkhonza.

Kwakuhlale kunje, impilo yamacala. Ngangifuna futhi ngifuna izwi likaNkulunkulu ezindaweni eziningi, ngaze ngabhalisa emaqenjini amasonto, kodwa lapho ngifika ekhaya kwakufana, ukulwa, ukuziqhenya nokungathetheleli ezinhlangothini zombili. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umyeni wami wayengathembekile, ngaba nomuzwa wokuthi umhlaba wami uyaphela, wayefuna ukuthatha impilo yami, ngazama kaningi ngemithi nangommese. Wenze njalo nakumyeni wami, kwafika isikhathi lapho wangishaya, kwakuyisimo esinzima kakhulu. Impilo yami yayiya ngokwami ​​ukuhlupheka nokuhlupheka. Bengixosha umyeni wami ngokuya kude nami nsuku zonke. Sinamadodakazi amathathu, amadala amabili abukela konke. Umyeni wami cishe wayefika njalo edakiwe, kwakunzima kakhulu.

Ngelinye ilanga ngafika kuleli qembu elihle lapho bangifundisa khona ukuthanda uNkulunkulu. Ukuzazisa. UNkulunkulu ungumsizi wami osheshayo. Ngazenza zonke izifundo abasinika zona, ngaqala ukulalela, ngancika kuNkulunkulu. Namuhla umyeni wami namadodakazi ami bangibona ngendlela ehlukile, bangitshela ukuthi sengishintshe kakhulu. Manje umyeni wami useduze kwami, uyangigona futhi uthi uyazisola ngakho konke esihlangabezane nakho. Ngimxolele ngenhliziyo ephelele futhi ubonakala kimi. Kunezinto ezisasebenza kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi uNkulunkulu uzosibuyisela sobabili ngokuphelele. Ngiyayibona futhi ngiyakholelwa ngoba kuningi engangikufuna ukuhlala ngokuthula futhi ngakuthola kuNkulunkulu omkhulu futhi onesihe. Kuyasebenza emndenini wami. Izwi lakhe lithi khala kimi ngizokuphendula ngikufundise izinto ongazazi. Konke kwenzelwa udumo lweNkosi yethu enkulu yamaKhosi!
Kusele kimi kuphela ukuthi ngikutshele ukuthi siyalalela ngoba yilokho uNkulunkulu wethu akufunayo, ukuthi simthande yena kuphela. Ngiyabonga odade abancane ngoba ngifunde okuningi kulowo nalowo. Ngiyabonga Sr. Ana. Inkosi ikubusise.

Ubufakazi bemishado ebuyiselwe ngemuva kokuphinga

Ubufakazi / Celest

NgingumKristu futhi umyeni wami akakakholwa. Ngikutshela ubufakazi bami kuze kube namuhla, unyaka nezinyanga ezine umyeni wami eshiye ikhaya lethu:
Ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi, umyeni wami wadluliselwa engaphakathi nezwe futhi njengomndeni sonke sasihamba sonke. Ngichithe iminyaka eminingi yehla nezimo emshadweni wami, kepha angikwesabi ukungathembeki.

Ngelinye ilanga saba nengxoxo encane okwaba yimbangela yokuthi konke lokhu kwenzeke. Umyeni wami wangisola ngokungabi nandaba naye, ukuthi ngizosiza abanye ngokuxazulula izinkinga zabo ngaphandle kweyami, inkolo yami, lolo thando lwafa, njll.
Izimo eziningana, kamuva ngabona ukuthi bengingathembekile. Ngakwazi ukubeka izandla zami emlilweni, ngoba akazange abonakale enjalo, ngaphambi kokuba abe nesithunzi, ezinikele ekhaya lakhe, kuphela emndenini wakhe.

Uhlangane nomuntu emsebenzini owaziyo ukuthi angamkhipha kanjani ekhaya lakhe ezinyangeni ezintathu nje. Ukubhidlika komshado wami kwaba yisigameko esinzima kakhulu kimi, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi ubungumfazi ohamba phambili emhlabeni, ukuthi ufanele izinto ezinhle kuphela, ngaphandle kwenkokhelo enjengale. Amaphupho akho, izifiso zakho ezinkulu, ikusasa lakho libukeka lingenalutho futhi lingaqinisekile.
Ubona kuphela ukuphelelwa yithemba, ubumnyama, ukuhlupheka, izinhlungu ziyanda nsuku zonke, ububi buyanda, ukuhlukunyezwa, izingane zethu zihlupheka njll.

Kepha nganginezinto ezimbili engingakhetha kuzo: Eyokuqala, ngaludlula lolu vivinyo emhlabeni futhi ngazivumela ukuthi ngiqhutshwe yimizwa yami (inzondo, ukufutheka, ukudangala, ukuziphindisela).

Noma ngangizophumelela kulokhu kuhlolwa kwesandla sikaNkulunkulu futhi ngimyeke angilwele (Trust, security, Faith, Love, Hope).

Ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu ngenze isinqumo esihle kunazo zonke!
Ngakho-ke ngaqala uhambo lwami ngifuna iqiniso, futhi langikhulula !!
UNkulunkulu wangibekela abeluleki, ngashiya abangani bami, ngathula, ngathandaza, ngazila, ngagcina imilindelo, ngasungula igumbi lami lempi, futhi uNkulunkulu wangivumela ukuthi ngithole leli qembu eliyigugu eliholwa uDade Ana Nava. ezinhlelweni zabo, ngoba kulapho ngifunde khona futhi ngabona ukuthi umshado wami wawungenasisekelo esifanele, ngoba uKristu wayekude kakhulu nathi.

Ngenxa yazo zonke izifundo zokubuyiselwa kwemishado zaleli qembu: izimiso zebhayibheli, imithandazo ephezulu yezinga lokomoya, imithandazo yokuphilisa umphefumulo, ngifunde ukuthi isitha sami sangempela bekungeyena umyeni wami nokuthi ubuwula bami nokukhonza izithombe kwehlise indlu yami.

Ngakho-ke, sibambene nezithembiso zikaNkulunkulu ezibhalwe ezwini lakhe, ngoKholo, Uthando, Ithemba ake ngithathwe ngothandekayo wami futhi manje usendaweni yakhe efanele empilweni yami.

UHoseya 2:14 Ngizomenza athandane Uzomyisa ehlane futhi ngizokhuluma nenhliziyo yakhe
UJesu, ukwazile ukuthumba inhliziyo yami manje ngiyazi ukuthi kuYe nginakho konke, angisabheki emuva, angimbambele igqubu umyeni wami, ngafunda ukumxolela.

UNkulunkulu wayiphulukisa inhliziyo yami futhi ngiyathandaza ukuthi umyeni wami nomunye umuntu bangahlangana noNkulunkulu ofanayo ogcwalisa impilo yami ngenjabulo nangokuthula nsuku zonke futhi angathola inkululeko, uthando nentethelelo ezimpilweni zabo.

Lokho uNkulunkulu akubumbile, umuntu akakwazi ukukuhlukanisa !!! UMathewu 19: 6

Kuyigunya elizofika maduze ekubonisweni ngoba igama lakhe lingu-Yebo no-Amen kuye !!!! Izwi lakho liyisiqinisekiso sami !!!
Labo abahlwanyela ngezinyembezi bayovuna ngokuthokozaAmaHubo 126: 5 Kuyoba njalo !!!

Ingabe kukhona okungenzeki ngoNkulunkulu? (Jeremiya 32:27)

Manje senginethemba kuye kuphela, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi umklomelo useduze futhi ngiwulindile, ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi Othandekayo wami uyalisheshisa izwi lakhe ukuze alisebenzise. Jeremiya 1:12
Ngiyanibusisa Bathandekayo bami futhi nginikhuthaza ukuba niqhubeke nokubekezela.
Usekushilo futhi uzokwenza !!!! Ukhulumile futhi uzolandela !!!!

Ubufakazi bokuphulukiswa komphefumulo / Angela

Ngineminyaka engama-28 ngishadile, eminyakeni emithathu eyedlule umyeni wami washiya ikhaya wayohlala nomunye wesifazane. Njengathi sonke esidlula kulesi simo, ngangifuna ukufa; Ngalwa, ngamemeza, ngakhala, ngathi, kodwa lutho, umyeni wami wathuthela kude. Wayenendodakazi nomunye wesifazane futhi wayengasenandaba nomndeni wakhe.

Angizondli ngokwezimali. Unyaka wokuqala nangomusa kaNkulunkulu ngakwazi ukusinda. Ngafika ezingeni lokuphela kwezidingongqangi ngenxa yokuntula imali. Indlu yami yayisizoshisa futhi nangaphandle kokwazi uNkulunkulu, wangivikela. Umyeni wami akazange akhathele ukuphinda kimi ukuthi wayengangithandi nokuthi lowo ayefuna ukuhlala naye ingunaphakade kwakuyile ntokazi.

Enganginaye kwakuwukuphela kwendodakazi yami, ngoba amadodana ami amabili ayenomuzi wawo. Umyeni wami wayeyisikhonzi sami, ngacela uthando lwakhe futhi ngathola ukwenqatshwa kuphela. Lapho sengiguqulwe ngaya kuKristu, ngaqala ukubheka ku-inthanethi usizo lokubuyiselwa, ngafunda incwadi njengoba uNkulunkulu efuna futhi uzobuyisela umshado wami, ngangena enkonzweni futhi kancane kancane ngashintsha, ngaba yilowo wesifazane wahlukumeza umyeni wami ngezimangalo manje sengingunkosikazi ongafaki mali. Ngithandazela yena nomunye wesifazane nsuku zonke.

Ngiyethemba kuNkulunkulu ukuthi uyawenza umsebenzi wakhe ophelele. Umyeni wami akasangimemezi ngokuthi akangithandi, vele akangitsheli ukuthi uyangithanda futhi nami angibuzi, ngilokhu ngithembele kuNkulunkulu osebenza enhliziyweni yomyeni wami futhi. Okwamanje wenze into angayenzanga isikhathi eside nokuyilapho abhale khona ukungifisela ubusuku obuhle futhi lo myalezo ubumhambisana nalokhu.

Ngithanda imininingwane kodwa hhayi njengakuqala, manje kwase kwehlukile. Ngiyazi ukuthi uNkulunkulu usebenzelana nomyeni wami kanye nami. Kube nzima kakhulu ukwamukela ukuthi uhlala nomunye umuntu, kepha bekungenzeki. Ngifunde ukuzithiba hhayi ukuthukwa. Ngakuqonda ukuthi umyeni wami kumele abunjwe futhi aguqulwe bese ebuyela ekhaya.

Ubufakazi bokuphulukiswa komphefumulo / okungaziwa

Nginonyaka kulokhu. Lapho lokho kuqala, konke engangikwenza kwakuwukuphephela kuNkulunkulu; Umkhuleko, ukuzila ukudla nokufunda izwi. Ngikwenze ngendlela yami ngoba bengingenakho ukuholwa, ngaze ngathola leli qembu.

Ngilandela ukuholwa nguDade Ana, ngenyanga elandelayo ngabonga uBaba wami waseZulwini OTHANDWAYO ngoba ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ukuvumele ngenhloso ngempilo yami nangempilo yomyeni wami. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbili nginikele umyeni wami ngokuphelele ezandleni zikaNkulunkulu. Wayengasasihloli kuFacebook wakhe, wayengasalindi ukuthi uku-inthanethi noma cha. Izikhathi ezimbalwa efika endlini, akazange afune lutho, akabuzanga lutho.

Lapho ngiqiniseka ukuthi umyeni wami wayehlala nalona wesifazane angaqondakali, nami ngaqala ukumthandazela. Ngabambelela kakhulu kuBaba waseZulwini nazo zonke izithembiso zakhe zokubuyiselwa: Kuyinqubo lapho usuku nosuku ngenza isinqumo sokuxolela.

Ngenxa yezifundo ezinikezwe kuleli qembu kanye nemithandazo esiyifundiswe nguDade Ana, inhliziyo yami ayikhululekanga. Akusekho ukulahla ithemba, ulaka, ulaka, umona.

Ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu angizange ngiwele ogibeni lwesitha lokudalula izinkinga zami zomshado (iseluleko sikaDade Ana) kunoma ngubani ngaphandle kwabanye odade ababengamalungu aleli qembu ababedinga ukwazi isimo sami ukuze bangisize. Njalo lapho ngangilingwa ukuthi ngifonele umyeni wami ngangiguqa ngamadolo phambi kukaNkulunkulu futhi ngikusho kuye.

Njengamanje ngiqhubeka ngibambe isandla SOMTHANDI wami waseZulwini, ngethembele ezithembisweni zakhe nasentandweni yakhe enhle futhi ephelele. Kubhaliwe ezwini lakhe ukuthi lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisa umuntu akuhlukanisi. Ngiyamethemba uBaba wami waseZulwini futhi ngiyazi ukuthi lokho kuthathwe ngesandla Sakhe, ezifundweni ezinikezwe kuleli qembu nezeluleko zomphathi walo nabanye babaholi, umshado wami uzobuyiselwa maduze ngegama likaSomandla uJesu.

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