Ukucabanga kwempilo nothando . Ngikhumbula uthisha wami wepiyano engitshela ukuthi umculo wulimi lomhlaba wonke. Manje ngafaka uthando, ukulahlekelwa nobuhlungu kuleso sigaba.
Akunandaba ukuthi singobani, yini esiyikholelwayo, noma sihlala kuphi, sonke sizobhekana nezinga elithile uthando , ukulahlekelwa nobuhlungu empilweni yethu. Futhi ezingxoxweni ngomphefumulo wami: Izindaba kanye nokuzindla ngempilo, ukufa nothando ngemuva kokulahleka, owelapha U-Ellen P. Fitzkee kusivumela ukuthi sihlolisise okwenzeka kubo ukuze sikwazi ukuzindla ngokwethu.
Sengizuze ukulahlekelwa okuphezulu okuyisihlanu esikhathini esiyiminyaka emithathu, kubhala uFitzkee, futhi ngandlela thile, ngiyaqhubeka nokubuya ekujuleni kokuphelelwa yithemba. Wayazi kwasekuqaleni ukuthi wayengeke abe ngumfundi ohlukanisiwe, obuka incwadi yakhe. Ngangazi ukuthi nami ngizobe ngicabanga ngohambo lwami lokubhekana nokulahlekelwa, ubuhlungu nokuphulukiswa.
UFitzkee unikeza izincazelo ezimfushane ngokunyuswa nokunakekelwa kweNkathi Entsha. Bobabili babe nomthelela omkhulu empilweni yakhe. Uma ubhekisa kokwedlule, uyavuma ukuthi amanye amakhono okubhekana nesimo engiwadingayo awajwayelekile, kepha anikezela ngokushintsha kokugxila futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukuqonda kangcono ubukhona bomuntu ngokubheka ngaphakathi nokuthola lokho esihlale sikwazi yiba neqiniso.
NgingumKristu ngakho nginezinkolelo ezehlukile, kepha ngiyahlonipha futhi ngiyavuma ukuthi lokhu kungukuhlangenwe nakho kukaFitzkee. Lezi zindlela ezejwayelekile yindlela okufeza ngayo ukuthula, ukugxila nokuxhuma, futhi uthole ithemba namandla akho lapho ubhekene nokudabuka okukhulu nezingqinamba.
UFitzkee uphinde wakhetha ukusebenzela abanye phakathi nomsebenzi wakhe. Ngaba ngumama wabanye engangifuna ukuba nabo, uyabhala. Ngakhetha imisebenzi engivumela ukuthi ngiveze lokhu, noma ngabe ngiwuthisha, umqeqeshi, umeluleki, owelaphayo, noma umeluleki. Lapha, uvula umnyango wenhliziyo yakhe ngesibindi ngokushicilela, okuwumkhuba osetshenziswa kabanzi ekwehliseni ingcindezi, ukucabanga, kanye nokuxazulula izinkinga, kungakhathalekile ukuthi umuntu unokholo noma inkolo enjani. Okungenile kwakhe - esingakufunda njengabafundi - kuveza okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kobungcweti nokwakhe, ubunikazi bakhe, okutholakele, ubuhlungu bakhe, injabulo yakhe nezifiso zakhe. Sifunda ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe njengomeluleki wesikole, nanjengomama ezinjeni ezimbili.
UFitzkee ucabanga nangobudlelwano bakhe bangaphambilini, obukhona njengamanje nobuzayo. Usebenzisa iziqondiso zomoya, ukubhala okuhanjisiwe, nezinye izindlela ezingazwakala zingaqondakali kwabanye abafundi, kodwa uFitzkee akutholayo kumsiza ukuba afunde ngaye. Njengoba futhi efaka ukunakwa futhi agxile kosuku nosuku, uzimisele ngokuphila okwamanje.
Ngiyazazi mathupha ukuthi usizi nokulahlekelwa kungamandla amakhulu ezimpilweni zethu, okuvame ukusishiya nezinhliziyo ezilimele kanye nezibazi ezingokomzwelo. Kodwa-ke, ngithole ukuthi uma uvulekele ukwelashwa futhi nini, inhliziyo yakho nomphefumulo wakho kuzoqala kancane ukukhipha izingqimba zobuhlungu. Bese kuthi, ngokumangala, ubone ukuthi unekhono namandla okuphila futhi uthande futhi.
Abekho abantu abaningi kuleli zwe abamema ngokuzithandela abantu abangabazi ohambweni lwabo olubuhlungu ngosizi, kodwa uFitzkee ungomunye wabo. Ngibonga indlela asivumela ngayo ngomusa ukubona le nqubo iqhubeka empilweni yakhe, nokuthi sabelane ngezinto ezisho kakhulu hhayi kuye kuphela, kodwa kithina sonke.
- Amagama Wokugqugquzela angashintsha impilo yakho