Ukubaluleka okungokomoya kwemihume.
Imigede imele izinkumbulo ezivame ukugcinwa noma ezihloliwe, imizwa yethu, nayo yonke leyo mizwa engakwazi ukushiya ngaphandleukukhanya.
I- imihume akha isiphephelo semvelo, indawo yokufihla noma yokufihla okuthile esingafuni ukukukhombisa. Ngamafuphi, le mihume imele ukuvikelwa, kokubili empilweni yangempela futhiemaphusheni akho.
Izikhathi eziningisiphupha ngezindawofuthi imvamisa amaphupho asitshela ngezinto ezingaziwa ngobuntu bethu. Endabeni yemihume, ukufanekisela kwabo empilweni yangempela kufana kakhulu nokuchazwa kwamaphupho abo. Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ifayela le- incazelo yokuphupha ngomhume?
Izinkinga zobuso emhumeni
Ukuphupha ngomhume noma, esikhundleni salokho, ukuthi ungaphakathi komhume, kunencazelo emaphakathi ecacile nebonakalayo. Uzizwa usengozini,uzizwa ushushiswa, futhi udinga ukucasha ngokuthile noma kothile. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukwazi kwakho okungaphansi komhlaba kwazi ngaphambi kwakho ukuthi umngani uzokukhaphela noma abaluleke izinkinga eza empilweni yakho.
Izinkinga zalabo abacasha emhumeni zingaqhamuka kunoma iyiphi inkambu, imizwa, ezenhlalo, umndeni, noma umsebenzi, kepha ukukuvikela kungahle kungabi yindlela engcono yokubhekana nalezo zinkinga. Ungahlala emhumeni njengendlela yokubuka uze uthole indlela yokuxazulula izingqinamba, kepha khumbula ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kuzofanele Phuma futhi ubhekane nakho.
Uma ephusheni lakho ekugcineni ushiya umhume, kusho ukuthi uzoshiya ukunqoba noma yibuphi ubunzima. Noma kunjalo, ekuchazeni leli phupho ngemihume, kufanele ucabangele zonke izinto ezivelayo, kanye nokuzwa elikukhiqizayo, uma uzizwa ukhishwa inyumbazane, ungahlaliseki, uphephile noma uvikelekile.
Amaphupho lapho sizibona singaphakathi komhume noma umhume kufanele ahunyushwe ngokususelwa kwizenzeko nezithombe ezikuwo, kanye nemizwa ekhiqizwayo.
Ukuphupha ngaphakathi komhume lapho kukhonaamanzikuwuphawu lokuthi imizwa yethu igeleza kahle, ngenkathi uma sitholaumlilokuwo, kukhombisa ukuthi sigcine okuhlukahlukeneizinkanuko,futhi kungenzeka ukuthi noma ngasiphi isikhathi sikukhiphe konke lokhu, okungasidalela ukuphazamiseka okuningi.