Lokhu kuziphatha kwekati kuwukuncoma , ochwepheshe bathi, ngoba ikati lakho lixhumana nawe futhi likumaka njengelakho izihlobo . Amakati achaza imihlaba yawo ngephunga , kusho uMarilyn Krieger, ongumxhumanisi oqinisekisiwe wokuziphatha kwekati eCalifornia, owaziwa nangokuthi The Cat Coach. Kuyindlela yokukhomba imindeni yabo, abangani babo kanye nezitha zabo. Uma ikati lingena kuwe, lihweba ngephunga lakho. Kuyaqinisa ukuthi uyingxenye yeqembu (labo). Imnandi kakhulu.
Kungani amakati ehlikihla kuwe
Amakati anezindlala ezinephunga elikhipha ama-pheromones ezingxenyeni ezahlukahlukene zomzimba wawo, kufaka phakathi izihlathi zawo, imisila, amabunzi, amathe ezinyawo nezindawo zangasese. Lapho behlikihla okuthile noma othile, bafaka leli phunga futhi lihlala isikhathi eside, kusho u-Amy Shojai, umeluleki oqinisekisiwe wokuziphatha kwezilwane eTexas.
Ukuxhumana ngephunga akugcini ngokusayina okuthile lapho ikati lihamba ngokuhamba, kepha umyalezo onukayo nawo unamathela ekuxhumaneni kwesikhathi eside, Kusho uShojai.
Ngezinye izindlela zokuxhumana, ikati nelinye iqembu kumele babekhona, ngokwesibonelo, ukuze babone isifiso somsila onobungane, noma ukuzwa amadevu namakhwela, kusho uShojai, umbhali wezincwadi ezingaphezu kwezingama-30 zokunakekelwa kwezilwane, kufaka phakathi UKUQINISEKA: Ukuxazulula Izinkinga Zokuziphatha endlini yakho ngamakati amaningi. Ukuxhumana kwezwi kungathatha umoya owodwa kuphela ngesikhathi, usho kanjalo. Kepha iphunga liyaqhubeka nokuxhumana noma ngabe ikati seliphumile esakhiweni.
Ukuhlikihla ikati nakho kungaba yindaba yokufuna insimu, kepha kudlula lokho, kusho uShojai. Ukumakwa kwendawo kugxile kakhulu ezintweni nasezikhaleni futhi imvamisa kuhlotshaniswa nokuhlikihlwa nokuhlikihlwa esihlathini.
Kusho Ukuthini Uma Amakati Akuhlikihla? Ukumaka amalungu esizwe sabo.
Amakati asendle ahlikihla omunye nomunye ukumaka amalungu esizwe sabo. Izithombe © maximkabb | I-Thinkstock.
Emakoloni amakati anolaka, i-feline imaka njengamalungu esizwe sayo ngokuzihlikihla nokumboza amakhanda ngaphansi komunye nomunye. Le yindlela yokuxhumana nokwamukela, kusho uKrieger. Lapho amakati edlulisela lokhu kuziphatha kubantu, ahlanganisa iphunga lawo nelethu futhi afune nokwamukelwa. Uma ikati lingakuthandi, cishe ngeke likuhlikihle, kusho uKrieger.
Uma amakati ekuhlikihla, athi, Uyingxenye yeqembu, nami ngiyingxenye yakho, sonke siyingxenye yeqembu elifanayo, kusho yena.
Ingabe amakati akhomba izindawo ezahlukahlukene zokuzihlikihla ngenhloso?
Amakati awagxili kakhulu ezingxenyeni ezithile zomzimba womuntu ezinemiyalezo ehlukene; imvamisa bavele baye endaweni efinyeleleka kalula, kusho uKrieger.
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