Iphupho lokuxoshwa ekuchazelweni umsebenzi nencazelo
Indlela izinto eziyiyo, ukukhishwa emsebenzini kuyiphupho langempela elijwayelekile. Ngakho-ke uma isithunzi sokuxoshwa sivela nasemaphusheni akho, ungahle uvuke ngokungazinzi nokungakhululeki okungeke kunyamalale usuku lonke. Kepha hlisa umoya, ngoba ukuphupha ngokuxoshwa akunayo incazelo ethile njengoba kubonakala. Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngokukhululwa ?
Ukuvalelisa emaphusheni
Izolo ebusuku uphuphe umphathi wakho ekuxosha emsebenzini ngezindlela ezimbi uzibone uqoqa izinto zakho ushiye ihhovisi likhathazekile ungazi kumele wenzeni. Ukuphupha ngokuxoshwa kungenye yezinto ezivame ukwenzeka umsebenzi amaphupho , kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi akusishiyi enkingeni eqhubekayo.
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho omsebenzi cishe kuhlobene kakhulu nesimo sakho somuntu siqu ngomsebenzi wakho kunokuthi a iphupho langaphambili . Ngakho-ke, ukuphupha uxoshiwe emsebenzini kukhuluma ngokungazethembi kwakho ngamakhono akho kanye nokwesaba kwakho ukungenzi umsebenzi wakho kahle.
Ngakho-ke uma uphupha ukuxoshwa, ungakhathazeki ngokucabanga ukuthi kusasa uzobe ungasebenzi, zama ukucabanga ngezinto ongazishintsha ukuze uzizwe ujabulile emsebenzini wakho bese unikeza okwengeziwe. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho uzokwazi khona ukwehlukanisa indawo yokusebenza nabasebenzi futhi uvimbele isenzo ukuthi singene emaphusheni akho.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha uxoshwa?
Amaphupho asebenza ukukhulula okungazi lutho, okuvame ukusebenzisa uphawu okufanele kuchazwe, akuzona ngokoqobo njengoba singacabanga ngezinye izikhathi, kuchaza u-Elías, ongeza ukuthi ngokujwayelekile, lolu hlobo lwephupho lwenzeka lapho sidlula umzuzwana wokungazinzi noma ukungavikeleki, hhayi emkhakheni wezomnotho kuphela, ngoba ungathinta ezinye izindawo, futhi ukhombise isidingo soshintsho lwempilo.
Incazelo yalo ekhonjwe kakhulu ukuthi iyiyo okukhombisa isidingo sokuqeda ubudlelwano kunoma iyiphi indawo empilweni yethu . Kusho futhi ukukhathazeka ngokulahlekelwa yithuba lokuhlangabezana nezindleko esizitholile, njengempahla ebanjiswayo, imalimboleko, njll., Futhi sesaba ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukubhekana nakho ngokuzayo. Kulezi zikhathi zokuntengantenga komnotho, abantu abanezimalimboleko ezinikeziwe, noma izikweletu zanoma yiluphi uhlobo, bangaba nala maphupho ngokwesaba ukungakwazi ukubhekana nabo esikhathini esimisiwe, kusho u-Elías.
Ngalesi sizathu, uma uphupha ukuthi umqashi wakho ukukuxosha, kungathinta ezinye izindawo ezimbili: ubudlelwano bakho, obukhombisa ukuthi izinguquko ziyeza noma umsebenzi wakho, okukhombisa ukuthi wesaba ukufeza imibono emisha, ngokwesaba ukuxoshwa.
Ingabe umsebenzi wakho usengozini?
Ngokomthetho, akudingeki ukuthi ithinte kuphela indawo yokusebenza; kungaba enye ingxenye yempilo yethu. Kwezinye izimo, kungabhekisa emsebenzini, futhi ikakhulukazi uma sinobudlelwano obubi nozakwethu noma sinesibindi sokungafaki imibono emisha simasha emsebenzini, ngokwesaba ukuthi bazokwenqatshwa noma baxoshwe, wengeza u-Elías.
Lapho ukuxoshwa kungesikhathi engamukeleki, kukhombisa ukuthi ukhathazekile ngesimo sakho sezezimali , noma ngabe okwamanje awunaso isikhathi esibi. Lapho ingxabano idala ukuxoshwa nomphathi wakho, veza isidingo sakho sokuveza imibono, noma abanye bengabelani nayo , umgomo.
Ingabe kuyiphupho elivela njalo?
Kunezinhlobo ezimbili zamaphupho ezibalulekile empilweni yethu: lezo eziphindaphindwa kaningi (eziphindayo) noma lezo eziba nomthelela omkhulu kithina. Lezi zinhlobo ezimbili yizo okufanele sizinake. It kukhombisa ukuthi awukhululekile ngokuthi iqhubeka kanjani impilo yakho futhi udinga ukwenza ushintsho engxenyeni ethile yempilo yakho, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi uhlaziye futhi unake, ukuze wazi ukuthi kuluphi uhlangothi lwesipiliyoni sethu kubalulekile ukwenza lezo izinguquko, kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.
Yini engenziwa ukuyeka ukuphupha ngokuxoshwa?
Inqobo nje uma singazixazululi izimo ezibhekiswe kuzo, ngeke siyeke ukuba nazo . Kufanele sinake impilo yethu, sithole indawo lapho sinokungqubuzana noma ukungavikeleki ukukuxazulula futhi, uma isixazululwe ngokuphelele, bazomisa lezi zinhlobo zamaphupho. Kusho isidingo soshintsho engxenyeni ethile yempilo yethu, edinga ukuxazululwa ukukhulula ukungazi kuleyo ngcindezi, Kuphetha u-Elias.
Ezinye izincazelo zokuphupha ngokulahlekelwa umsebenzi ohlukile
Phupha ngokulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi ngenxa yokuzilibazisa . Uma ungomunye walabo abacindezelekile emsebenzini wakho futhi bakhathele ukuzwa ulaka lomphathi wakho usuku nosuku, mhlawumbe nawe unalo leli phupho. Kuyiphupho elikhululayo ukuthi ukwazi kwakho okungaphansi komqondo kuvele ukuze ushiye umsebenzi wakho. Ungase uzizwe ezihambayo noma ukuxhashazwa. Ngincoma ukuthi ucabangisise ngaphambi kokukufeza. Namuhla kufanele unakekele umsebenzi.
Uphupha ngokuxoshwa ngaphandle kwesizathu (okungamukeleki) futhi ungenakho ukuxazululwa . Ukhathazekile ngesimo sakho sezezimali. Ubhekene nesigaba sokucindezeleka kwezomnotho. Uphansi emhlabeni, futhi uyakwazi ukubaluleka kokuletha umholo emndenini wakho. Unamaqiniso, futhi uyabubona ubunzima bokuthola umsebenzi omusha.
Ukuphupha ulahlekelwa yintukuthelo nomphathi. Unemibono ehlukile othanda ukuyabelana nabanye ngisho noma abanye bengabathandi. Yize ungafuni ukuphatha izwi lokucula uma ulwela izinhloso zakho, ikakhulukazi lapho wazi ukuthi uqinisile. Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi, lesi simo sengqondo sikulethele ikhanda.
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