Ukuphupha ngencazelo evumayo yokukhulelwa .
Ukuphupha nge ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kuvame lapho usola lokho ukhulelwe . Kulokhu, akudingekile ukuthi ubheke incazelo yephupho ngoba kumane nje kukhombisa ukukhathazeka kwakho. Kodwa-ke, uma ungekho kuleso simo sokungabaza, ukuba naleli phupho kuthola ukutolikwa kwalo emandleni akho okuzivumelanisa nezimo ezintsha.
Futhi ukuthi ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ukuxhumana kwakho okokuqala neqiniso lakho elisha. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukukhulelwa kungushintsho olukhulu empilweni yakho, futhi kuzofanele ubhekane nakho ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Yibone ephusheni lakho uthatha isivivinyo sokukhulelwa usizi, ukukhathazeka noma ithemba, ngoba leso simo sengqondo yilokho okuzobonakala osukwini lwakho namuhla.
Akunjalo, leli phupho elinokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa liyisandulela. Kwenzeka into efanayo lapho uphupha ngokukhulelwa, ukuthi akufanele uyithathe ngokoqobo, kepha ubhekele ukufanekisela kwayo amaphrojekthi amasha , izigaba zokuphila ezintsha noma izibopho ezintsha. Uma ulangazelela umphumela wokuhlolwa ephusheni lakho, usukulungele ukungena esigabeni esisha.
Iningi labantu livame ukuhlobanisa lolu hlobo lwephupho nokuba ngumama, kepha incazelo yalo iphindwe kaningi mayelana neyakho impilo yokusebenza . Ukukhulelwa, ukubeletha noma ingane kuyizimpawu zokuthi unakho ukukhathazeka ezingeni lobuchwepheshe futhi zingacacisa izinto eziningi mayelana nekhono lakho lokuzivumelanisa nalawo maphrojekthi amasha noma izinhloso ezintsha impilo ezibekele wena.
Ukuphupha ukhulelwe kuwuphawu oluqondile
Ngesikhathi sokulala, kuphakama izifiso zethu ezijulile noma ukwesaba. Kwesinye isikhathi singaba nesikhathi esihle sokucabanga ngomhlaba ophelele; kodwa-ke, kukhona ubusuku lapho amaphupho amabi ephazamisa ukuthula kwethu. Amaphupho awumnyango ongenakuchazeka; khumbula ukuthi ayikho impendulo eqondile. Yize kunochwepheshe abaningi abaqonda futhi bakhombe okuzokwenzeka empilweni yakho.
Elinye lamaphupho avame kakhulu kwabesifazane libheke izinsana . Yize kukhona iphupho elikhathaza abesifazane abaningana ngaphezulu, bephupha ukuthi bakhulelwe. Njalo amaphupho nabesifazane abakhulelwe kuyisibonakaliso esihle, ushintsho empilweni yakho. Uma owesifazane ephupha ukuthi ukhulelwe engakhulelwe, kusho ukuthi ukhathazeka ngokungazi ngalesi sigaba ebesifihliwe phambilini.
Enye incazelo enikezwe leli phupho ukuthi limelela isifiso esingagcwaliseki. Futhi, ukuphupha ukhulelwe kuhlobene nokudala futhi ufuna ukuhlangabezana nezimo ezintsha. Ngakho-ke, zama, uqale ngalokho oyeke ukukwenza noma ukwenze lapho umsebenzi noma umsebenzi wesikole uthathe sonke isikhathi sakho, khumbula ukuthi akukephuzi kakhulu ukuqala futhi. Dansa, cula, gijima futhi uhambe!
Ukuphupha ukuthi ukhulelwe yisixwayiso esisuka emzimbeni wakho ukuze ubalekele ukucindezeleka wenze amaphupho akho afezeke. Kuyamangalisa! Iphupho lethu lembula izidingo esinazo ukufeza inhlalakahle nenjabulo. Okuhlangenwe nakho okusha kukunika ukuthula kwengqondo futhi kusule ingqondo yakho yomsebenzi noma imisebenzi yasendlini.
Ngiphupha ukuthi isivivinyo sami sokukhulelwa sihle
lokho obukade ukuthemba kuzogcwaliseka, impumelelo obukade uyilangazelela iseduze kwakho, umuntu ofanele uzodlula empilweni yakho, amacebo owakhethe ngokuhlakanipha azothela izithelo, futhi uzokwazi ukuwabona ngoba awuzange ucabange kuphela ngokwakho ngoba uqonde ukuthi akekho umuntu ongajabula ngosizi lomunye futhi uyazi ukuthi ubaluleke kangakanani.
UKUPHUPHA UKUTHI IMIPHUMELA YOKUHLOLWA KWAMI KUMELE uphumelele izivivinyo noma uzibalekele, ngeke ushintshe umphumela, ekugcineni lokho okuzoba yikho kuzoba, hhayi ngokufuna izixazululo ezisheshayo lokhu kuzokuqinisekisa ukuthi uzothola okuthile okuwusizo, uNkulunkulu uyasithethelela izono zethu, kepha imiphumela yokuthi zisazohambisana nathi, zilungiselele ukubhekana nazo. (Umbuzo kanjani?)
UKUPHUPHA NGITHENGA ISIVIVINYO SOKUKHULELWA udinga ukuqiniseka ukuthi ufunani, kepha kule mpilo, akekho ongaqiniseka nganoma yini, kuzofanele uhambe, ukhethe noma ungaboni noma unesiqondiso sempilo yakho, uma usesikhathini esikhulu imibuzo, ngaphandle kokungabaza udinga
IPHUPHO LOKUTHI NGIMANGALILE NGOKUNGINIKELA ISIVIVINYO SOKUKHULELWA ungalindeli ukuthi impilo ikutshele ukuthi uzoyiphila kanjani, njalo nguwe owenza izinqumo, olawula impilo yakho, wonke amaphupho wezimanga izixwayiso ngempilo yakho, kungcono uhlale unikezela. Khumbula, amaphupho ayilawo maphupho futhi awalokothi ayeke ukuphupha.
IQINISO ELINGEZIWE. Uma isifiso sakho sokuba ngumama sigcwaliseka, khumbula ukuthi ukukhulelwa kunezinzuzo eziningi. Isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ukulahleka kwezinwele kunciphisa, okwenza izinwele zande kakhulu futhi zibukeke kangcono futhi zikhanye.
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